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“KABIN” – King Ary Bazin Intelligent Nubian
Sunrise: July 15, 1972
Sunset: March 11, 2026
At the very center of Ary’s world were the people he loved most.
His beloved wife, Ene Crooks, and their cherished twin sons, Jahbin and Jah’I Bazin, were the heart of his life.
Ary was born on July 15, 1972, the eldest son of Flore François and Ary Amos Bazin. From an early age he naturally stepped into the role of protector and caretaker. He grew up alongside his younger brother Reginald “Reggie” Dantes, and their bond reflected the deep sense of responsibility Ary carried for those he loved.
Whether it meant helping his mother after long shifts working double and sometimes triple hours as a single mother, or looking after his younger brother so she could rest, Ary showed early on that family duty was something he took seriously.
He was also deeply shaped by the guidance of his grandparents, Pierre and Germina François, lovingly known as Poppy and Mommy. As their first grandchild, Ary received both their affection and their discipline. They instilled in him pride, resilience, and a strong sense of identity and responsibility.
Ary spent part of his early years in Queens, New York, before moving with his family to Elmont, New York, where he attended Elmont High School. Known for his confidence, charisma, and unmistakable presence, Ary quickly became well known among classmates and neighbors. He formed friendships that would last throughout his life.
Life in Elmont wasn’t always easy. Ary and his family were the second Black family to integrate their neighborhood, and there were moments when they were not welcomed with open arms. But Ary, his mother Flore, and his brother Reggie never allowed that to diminish who they were. Instead, they continued to show up as proud members of their community, forming strong friendships—including a lifelong bond with Dale Grady, whose family had been the one of the few Black family in the neighborhood. After graduating from high school, Ary attended Howard University, where he further developed his cultural awareness and pride. Though he eventually decided to dis-enroll due to the financial strain that it would be put on the family, true to his nature, Ary trusted himself enough to make that decision honestly. He returned home and began working, eventually discovering his professional path in real estate as a title closer. Ary took great pride in his work and built a reputation for diligence, reliability, and a strong work ethic. He approached his career the same way he approached life—with focus, integrity, and determination.Beyond any job title or accomplishment, what people remember most about Ary was who he was.
Ary was deeply authentic. In fact, if you knew him, you know that word barely captures it. What you saw was exactly what you got. He did not pretend. He did not sugarcoat. If Ary liked you, he would go to the ends of the earth for you. But if he didn’t, you would know it immediately—because he would tell you plainly and move on with his life. He lived by a personal code of honor shaped by his upbringing, his family values, and the lessons he learned growing up.
Behind Ary's personality was a deeply loyal and caring spirit. Ary believed in showing up for people. Family and friends knew his famous “welfare checks.” He would stop by unannounced just to make sure everyone was alright. Sometimes it was a call, sometimes it was a visit, sometimes it was a ride to the airport at the most inconvenient hour of the night. And if he couldn’t make it himself, he might send one of his sons to check in. Those small acts became his way of saying, “I’m here. I’m looking out for you.”
He looked out for his family.
He looked out for his friends.
He looked out for the people he loved.
Ary leaves behind:
his beloved wife Ene Crooks,
his cherished sons Jahbin and Jah’I Bazin,
his loving mother Flore François,
his brother Reginald “Reggie” Dantes and sister-in-law Pascale Dantes,
his nephew Jahlil Dantes and niece A’Naiya Dantes,
his maternal uncles John-Franklin François, Michel François, Jean W. François, Yves A. François, Gabriel Eddy François, Capems François, Oscar Mack, and John Harvey,
his maternal aunts Immacula François Mack, Marie-Michelle François, Juny E. François, Yolette François, and Antilde François,
along with a host of cousins, lifelong friends, and loved ones whose lives were forever touched by his presence.
Ary will be remembered for his unmistakable voice, his unwavering loyalty, his fearless authenticity, and above all, his deep and abiding love for his family.
Though he is no longer physically with us, the legacy he leaves behind lives on—in the strength of his sons, in the love of his family, and in the countless lives he impacted simply by being exactly who he was. If there is one thing we can all say with certainty, it is this:
KABIN showed up for the people he loved. Because of that, his spirit, his lessons, and his love will continue to live on.
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